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Middah (character trait) focus: ‘Say what you need to say’

Note: I will be Counting the Omer for a total of 49 days, from Passover to Shavuot or from Slavery to Freedom.  For many, this is simply the Counting the Omer; for me, it is a time to actively reflect on different middot (character traits) that will lead me to my own rebirth.

Sometime in the last year or two I found myself struggling with how to share my thoughts with someone I loved.  There were things I wanted to say, but I was terrified that I would lose the person in my life if I didn’t say what I needed to say.  And I was also aware that if I didn’t say what was weighing heavy on my heart, I would lose myself and feel forever crushed.  It was a painful time in my life.

During this time, the song “Say” by John Mayer kept coming on the radio.  Each time I heard the words with the melody, I found myself more ready to speak my thoughts.  In truth ‘saying what I needed to say’ didn’t make everything better, it rarely does.  It did, however, help me to clear the air and to ultimately move forward.

Since that time, this song has come to my head each and every time I find myself locked into what feels like a silent place.  I have to remember that my voice matters and my ideas count.  While silence is a powerful tool which inspires me to think and to become grounded, my voice and my thoughts are worthy of being heard.  The key is finding the balance.

May we all always remember that our voice matters and to ‘say what [we] need to say’.

“Say” except

Have no fear for giving in
Have no fear for giving over
You’d better know that in the end
Its better to say too much
Then never say what you need to say againEven if your hands are shaking
And your faith is broken
Even as the eyes are closing
Do it with a heart wide openSay what you need to say [x24]

Writer(s): John Mayer, John Clayton Mayer
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