Archive for August, 2011

I love the water.

Watching water, swimming in water, hiking around water is always a profound experience.  Even falling out of my kayak after barely making it off the beach last November brought me joy.  The water soothes my soul; it always has.

In fact, the first thought that entered my mind when I opened my eyes this morning was that I love a good storm.  Over the course of the night Hurricane Irene or should I say Tropical Storm Irene moved me to a more peaceful place.  Don’t get me wrong, I know that this storm was capable of much destruction, but that wasn’t the case for me.  So I was able to relax to the rhythm of the rain and wind; I was able to take deep breaths and benefit from my time indoors.  Through listening to the pounding rain and soaring winds, I was able to silence my dark energy. The rain allowed me to do what I often do when I am in any body of water.  I treaded on land as I listened to the water and I worked through some of my inner turmoil.

Morning lifted my spirit and the storm faded too.

I’ve never been one to coast through any aspect of life.  Yet at this moment of my life I am more driven than I have ever been and that is both exciting and overwhelming.  That state of overwhelm has contributed to the darkness of the last couple of weeks.  During that time, I have been avoiding doing many of the tasks I need to accomplish instead of navigating the work that  jazzes me.  When I stopped doing the dance of life, I went into a dark place.  Navigating inaction doesn’t serve me well.  So I am now returning to life.

Every action generates a force of energy that returns to us in the like kind. What we sow is what we reap.
~ Deepak Chopra

I am someone who loves walking in the rain and feeling the rain beat down on my head. Both jumping in puddles and singing in the rain make up my happiest moments of my life; I also love walking along a beach and swimming in the water.  Perhaps I didn’t take enough time in the water or the rain this summer; and in response, I went to a dark space.

With so many passions to guide me, I can’t maneuver myself forward if I don’t nourish that what brings me joy at a core level.  So while I need to create:

  • a new non-profit agency for healing and transformation from childhood trauma.  (Do you want to help me name my organization? Let me know if you are up for a conference call.)
  1. business plan while incorporating the organization too.
  2. an advisory committee to help guide the organization.
  • an even better religious school than we had last year with more experiential learning taking place.
  • my book and my blogs too.
  • workshops that are part of my soul work.

And in the midst of all this creation, I need to actively engage in parenting and taking care of myself too.  I also need to live life with all the gifts and challenges.  Last week, we had to euthanize our puppy of 15 years. The love I felt for her runs deep; I am still mourning our loss today.  Mukseh was a gift, she came into our life at the least opportune moment, less than 24 hours after we brought Dovi home.  We adopted two beings and brought them home within days of each other.  And she left us after her time on this earth was done.  Mukseh had stood by Aryeh, our son, as he navigated his own life threatening illness.  Over the nearly three years he struggled, Mukseh was always by his side.

Mukseh, our precious pup

Life happens; death happens.  The question is how do I (or we) walk through life’s journeys.  I have a choice; I always have a choice.  So today, I woke up knowing that I have work to do.  In order for me to be happy, I need to find balance.  There is always a lot to do; there are always friends going through their own darkness while others are celebrating life.  My job is to find balance and to allow myself the room to feel, to be silent, and to thrive through doing that, which moves me.

The dance of life incorporates many rhythms and movements.  But unless I allow myself the time to both actively engage in creativity, but also to find comfort in the silence between the beats, I will never succeed.  The time has come for me to continue whittling away at my dreams while also nourishing my soul through doing the things that renew me.  I should be chanting, davening, writing, painting, hiking, drumming, and playing near or in water.   Balance comes from both creating and from taking the time to replenish my essence.

I think it is time for me to enjoy the water.  Anyone want to join in the fun?

And if you really want to know what it means to work with your creativity and the reality of what life hands you, listen to Steve Jobs, who just stepped down as CEO of Apple Computer; he also is a co-founder of Apple Computer and of Pixar Animation Studios.  Drawing from some of the most pivotal points in his life, Steve Jobs urged graduates to pursue their dreams and see the opportunities in life’s setbacks — including death itself — at the university’s 114th Commencement on June 12, 2005.

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Can we ever go back to the sandbox of our toddler years?

I love Israel, at least theoretically I do!  I also struggle with the choices that her government makes and how so many of the people relate to the world around them.  Prejudice seems to manifest itself throughout the country not just between Israel and her Palestinian neighbors. Ouch.

For a country that was created with diversity at every turn;  prejudice has often permeated the soil and interactions between the many souls that live there.   My hope is that more Israelis learn to play in the sandbox with each other and then with their Palestinian neighbors too.  The blessing is that there are already some brave and peaceful souls playing together; we just need to see more joining those ranks.

With every ounce of my soul, I know that I have to keep doing what I do.  Every day, I vision a more peaceful Israel and the world around her too; politically I try to do my part within my country; I pray/chant for things to get better.  I also try to support the people that are in Israel as they do the grassroots work of Tikkun Yisrael (repairing Israel).

In my fantasy world, a sandbox would make everything better.  If we had left the world to toddlers and young children playing together, everyone would really get along much better.

Can’t more of us try to go back to the sandbox?

With blessings for peace,


PS – The below chant was written for healing in response to yesterday’s terrorist attack by Dafna from Nava Tehila. “Adonai will give strength to his people; Adonaiwill bless his people with peace.” Psalm 29:11

May it be so!


This chant is so powerful and can take each of us through our own inner journeys as well as towards peace within the larger world too.

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Every one of us has stories to share.  While stories might have clear story lines; reality and relationships are rarely that simple.  Very little in this world is black or white; gray flakes are scattered everywhere.

Ten years ago, my father died.  He was kind and loving; he was the most amazing storyteller I knew and he never met a stranger.  My father was also weak and emotionally unable to keep me safe as a child.  And somehow, I learned to detach from that last part of the story; I learned to love him for who he was and to value the endless gifts he did give me.  In order to have a relationship with him, I chose to de-emphasize the struggles.

Tears trickle down my face when I recall the torment that my father suffered as he dealt with his own demons.  Financial, emotional, and physical challenges plagued him from my early teen years.  I wonder if he knew just how horrible my mother was to me; he should have seen the bruises around my neck, the black eyes, or the many cuts.  Somehow, I am not sure he realized how bad it was; he was never home and when he was, he hid downstairs. Just the same, he did have some clue, if anything; he knew the realities that surrounded my mother’s physical and mental life.

At the same time, the nature of my life with my father gave me the foundation for who I became as an adult.  I love people; I generally get a long with most every soul that I meet.  I walk down the street and make friends with homeless people, animals, and children.  My 14 year-old son, Dovi, frequently asks me if someone I just met has become my close friend.  And for that moment in time, the stranger becomes my closest confidant or more than likely I have just heard their life story because I was willing to listen.

Music is part of my daily life.  I listen, I sing, I chant, I drum and on a good day I can hold a tune or rhythm and on a bad day, I enjoy myself nonetheless.  Dad used to own record stores and a wholesale record house.  As I got older, my dad would let me work with him and there I would find friends and have a good time being surrounded with music and people that loved music.  My childhood had tolerable moments because of my father’s profession; when his business was able to sustain our family, I was a little safer. I loved that his work got me out of the house and that I could work with him too.

During the weekends and sometimes the summers, my father and I would go for long drives.  We would eat whatever cravings I was into that month; we would sing the popular hits, oldies, and anything that was playing on the radio.  We would laugh and share stories too.  When we were together, it was mostly great fun; the dark shadow was close by, but it didn’t detract from our time away from the house.  When we were working, driving, and just hanging out, we had fun.

Dad taught me how to smile, to share stories, and to live in the present moment.  He also taught me how to live when darkness loomed close by.  I don’t think I would be able to navigate the world or go with the flow the way I do if I didn’t have my father as a role model.  Yes it is sad that he stayed with my mother, but perhaps he felt like he had no choice.  I can understand that.  It wasn’t good for me, but in the end I made out OK.

My hope is that I take all the wisdom that was part of the man I knew and treasure it; and that I acknowledge the realities, but let them go.  Peace comes from knowing that I can do things differently than my father.  So, I will quietly (and sometimes loudly) navigate this world and I will do the best I can do with the tools my father gave me.

Ten years later, I think I may miss him more now because I have learned to let go of some of the pain and to treasure the memories.  I also believe I am a good storyteller because I was blessed to hear my father tell stories to every person that crossed his path.

May Morry Bloomberg’s memory be a blessing for good.

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Jemez Springs, New Mexico

About 18 months ago, I found my own little oasis or maybe just a piece of heaven in Jemez Springs, New Mexico (about 40 minutes outside of Albuquerque).   Each and every minute of my time there, left me mesmerized by the beauty, the terrain, the silence, and the overall energy.  I didn’t want to leave.  Even as I type these words, tears are running down my cheeks because I was so profoundly touched there.

When I allow myself to dream big, I dream of one day finding a haven that will allow me the time and resources to create as a writer, an artist of sorts.  I’d love to take a couple of years and just write, dream, and sustain myself on the words of my heart, my mind, and my soul.  Writing brings me more joy than nearly anything.  And yet, I also want to do some of my soul work in Jewish Education and working with survivors of childhood trauma.  My world is crazy busy with the desire to do tikkun olam, repair the world through my writing and work.

My mind is like the photo above.  On this little road in Jemez Spring, New Mexico there is a sign that says “Congested Area”.  At first glance there is literally nothing happening on this road.  At two different points, I stood there for nearly 10 minutes and saw one car each time.  And yet, I wonder what is going on just beneath the surface with the land, the animals, the people, or the atmosphere.  Just because I can’t see what is going on doesn’t mean that nothing is happening.

When I opened up the above photo a couple of days ago, the wisdom of that photo became instantly clear.  That photo is a metaphor for my life.  If you look at me at any given moment, you might see my warmth or my smile, but you probably won’t have any clue what is really filling my mind.  My world is so full; my mind is always focused on so many thoughts, feelings, experiences.  My mind rarely stops unless I am chanting and meditating; and at those times my mind is gently rolling the waves of thought. I think about my children, my work, passions, my writing, conscious consumerism, music, the environment, my dogs, my past, my daily to do list, my dreams. . . .so much fills my mind and my heart.

Visiting Jemez Springs allowed me to see a truth about the beauty that surrounded me and the beauty inside my own soul; it provided understanding.  Allow others to see what they see without needing to always share; silence is a gift as is sharing when the opportunity arises.  In return, honor that which is without expecting to know everything going on at every given moment.

Congested areas are really quite a treasure.

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Happiness is when what you think, what you say, and what you do are in harmony. ~Mahatma Gandhi

Forty-five years into my life, I am still learning that when I honor my soul and take care of myself that everything works out a little more easily.  Those that know me know that I am intense, but I am also fun loving and full of life.  That means that I have to navigate the world with the spirit that fills me.  Only when I embrace those realities fully am I able to maintain inner peace.   Finding the integrity to be fully present in the tough times allows me to better celebrate the gifts that exist in both the challenges and the gifts of daily life.

Wow, what a week.  I am feeling so filled with gratitude for how the universe has worked for me this week.  Nearly every interaction has given me insight and forced me to take stock.  An Aikido master inspired me, as did a wasp and bed bugs too.  Colleagues rallied around me and I heard some sweet comments from lay leaders.  I was blown away by the love and respect I felt for who I am as an educator and a person.  I also took the time to take care of myself and trust the process. Finally, I mended some fences and allowed my voice to be strong, but not unkind in each interaction.

I also had wonderful moments in which I was able to be present for some of my beloved friends who were celebrating life or working through some of life’s tough stuff.  I was also privy to be trusted; people shared things with me that they weren’t ready to let out into their smaller or larger world.  I feel honored.

Not every interaction felt comfortable, but every interaction felt grounded and spiritually right. Even motherhood worked nearly every moment.  I am so blessed.  Life might not be simple, but it is full of empowering moments that continue to propel me forward.

With each passing day, this week has touched me deeply.

Some of the highlights are:

  • Waking up from anesthesia after a colonoscopy was peaceful; I felt like angels were surrounding me.  The beautiful energy surrounded me gave me such inner peace.  Although I was quite traumatized by the act of being sedated and feeling alone in this time of my life, I knew that I would go through the procedure easily and that anesthesia would not hurt me this time.  Normally, I wake up extremely ill; not this time!!!  I believed all would be OK and it was!!!
  • When I dealt with challenging conversations, I remained grounded and internally peaceful.  The outcomes are not necessarily going to be easy to maneuver, but at least I spoke with the love and kindness that is part of what I hope to be my essence.
  • Our lawn got mowed and I started the process of caring for it a little bit better.  A few folks gave me simple advice and I was able to welcome the thorns that greeted me because I can’t find work gloves and I didn’t want to purchase new ones without better looking.  My small lawn looks better and I know a little more now than I knew when I started dealing with the thorns, vines, and weeds.
  • I met a wonderful person who I believe will become an ally in helping me to create a retreat for healing and transformation from childhood trauma.  In the one-hour conversation, I learned so much about how our bodies intuitively handle life’s experiences.  The conversation carried me through the day and into the evening when I met a wasp.
  • While leading Friday night services at the synagogue that I work, I found a wasp on my music stand.  At first, I became really anxious which is how I handle bees/wasps and spiders I don’t recognize.  And then I took a deep breath and escorted the wasp and music stand outside so that the wasp could live his/her life out fully.
  • Now for the bed bugs, Michael was certain that I brought bed bugs to visit his home in North Carolina and that I had somehow managed to invite them into Aryeh’s bed where he was eaten alive one night.   Instead of panicking and attempting to share this information with the many people I visited over the summer, I took a deep breath and said that we would handle what ever we had to handle after the bed bugs were confirmed by a reputable service/person. Bottom-line is that there are funky bugs down south and Aryeh was not bitten by bed bugs. Yippee!!!!

As this week ended and the new week began, I was able to celebrate something as simple as light.  After Shabbat I went to the local hardware store and purchased new light bulbs.  I now have a new, fantastic, and bright Compact Fluorescent Light (CFL) Bulb; I had been unhappy with the lightening in the lamp next to bed for about three years, but I thought I had to deal with what I had for environmental reasons. I was wrong! Last night I purchased a new CFL when the old one burned out and now I can really read my books before I crash for the night.  Life is really good!

Reality is simple; we live it daily.  And life can be daunting and full; it can also be filled with gifts at every turn.  The question is how do you walk through life and find those gifts.

Walk as if you are kissing the Earth with your feet.~Thich Nhat Hahn

Even as we do the hard work of living, may we each be blessed to find the gifts at every turn.

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Today is Tisha B’Av, a day to remember so many atrocities that occurred on the 9th of Av throughout our Jewish history.  The primary ones being the destruction of the both the First and Second Temples in Jerusalem; this is followed by expulsions of the Jews from England and Spain to more localized disasters. In http://www.myjewishlearning.com, it said that the “rabbis of the Talmudic age made the claim that God ordained this day as a day of disaster as punishment for the lack of faith evidenced by the Israelites during their desert wanderings after the exodus from Egypt.”  Another teaching that has been brought down to us from our scholars is that the Second Temple was destroyed due to sinat chinam, senseless hatred from one Jew to another.

The destruction surrounding Tisha B’Av can be described as tragic in every way.  And while we can acknowledge this reality, we struggle to comprehend how to come to grips with those realities and how to find meaning with those realities in our day.  Many of us do not believe in the all-powerful God that would destroy lives due to the sins of those before us, but we do feel deep pain for the loss of both Jews and non-Jews alike.  Also many of us would not want to bring back the animal sacrifices of the Temple or some of the other traditions.  The bottom-line is that many of us still choose to commemorate the destruction of the Temple and to remember other events of this date in history.

Over the past few days, I have said amazing conversations with folks on Facebook that are trying to weave an understanding of the destruction that happened so long ago.  What I love about these conversations is that each of us our trying to give the destruction a context for our lives today, but if all we do is lament the state of the world today, there is no hope left to get us to the next moment in time.  We have to have hope if we are going to flourish and do some serious tikun olam, healing the world.  Besides living in the darkness for more than a day (or even three weeks) doesn’t serve us well.  When we live in darkness, we can’t find a way to move forward and do the work of the living.

For a moment, lets take a look at the travesties that are still going on in Darfur, among other places.  I also think we should consider climate change (formerly understood as global warming), or maybe we should look at poverty/disease throughout the world, or hunger in our country, or even in our neighborhood.  And let’s not forget our beloved Israel with all of her warts.  The list is long and painful and yet so many of us are doing the work of tikun olam in one or more aspects of our lives.   There is so much that is going on around us that allow us to do our part so that destruction doesn’t have to continue in our days.

We can also be sensitive as we walk through life.  In http://triganza.blogspot.com/2011/08/for-lost-homes.html, one friend of mine helped me to understand Tisha B’Av in a poem in which she spoke about the loss of her own home due to financial turmoil.  Perspective.  There are so many ways to understand disasters.  So many people are struggling with illness and financial challenges.  Take a step forward and offer help regardless of their religious practices or political views.  The hurricanes, earthquakes and tsunamis of the past few years held everyone hostage with their furor.  Every one of us was touched by the sheer devastation.

Reading, Eicha, Lamentations on Tisha B’Av is a good way to gain perspective and to understand our history.  And then looking at the modern day challenges.  How can you make a difference?  The Second Temple was destroyed because of senseless hatred between Jews of different sects; do we personally have some senseless hatred or prejudice to someone, some sect of Judaism, to a difficult person?  At some point we can start looking for ways to build fences or relationship with others that we don’t necessarily connect with on a normal basis.

Going into the darkness and then looking for ways to heal is powerful.  Life isn’t always kind; that is a reality.  Yes it is easier to be optimistic when things are going good, but we also need to find the light when they aren’t.  People die tragically; disasters happen; life is full of tragedy.  And yet even in the darkest moments, we have to continue to do the work of healing.  Simply put, it is about survival.  In order to gain perspective that can propel us to higher ground, we can also look at where do we fit in the bigger world and what can we learn. If we don’t start learning from the past and the present, their power will continue growing in strength and perhaps destruction. If we can work on our community, our sphere, or even in the larger world. . .the ripples are enormous.

`“Be the change you want to see in the world.” spoken by Mahatma Gandhi – This saying is a guide post that can always propel us forward in the face of tragedy.

On a very personal note, I learned many things when I dealt with my own near tragedy and in my horrible realities. (Life for me is great now.) Tragedy happens, violence, pain, etc, the question is how do we walk through the hell.  We always have a choice. What I learn from Tisha B’Av is that I have a choice on how I act, how I relate to the world, and how I move through that which I don’t understand.  I can always make a difference wherever I am.  I can always be better, smile more, and help someone who needs a hand.  And in the face of deep challenges, I can do the same. I can also look for ways to help and inspire others to make a difference.  In today’s society, there is often something we can do to make a difference even in the most heinous of times.

Another quick point, I changed my name to Chava Gal-Or about 8 years ago. In a nutshell this entire conversation can be summed up by my name. Chava means life. I always seek life and I have survived some painfully dark times.  Gal-Or means wave of light. I seek and mostly find light even in the darkest of situations.  I also seek to find light in most everyone.  For me, the name I gave myself, constantly reminds me to seek life, heal life, and be part of life.  It also reminds me to find the light and work towards the light in every interaction.

In the last verse of Eicha, the last verse says, “Return us God and we will be returned, renew our days as in ancient times”. The verse is actually repeated at last night’s reading in order to end upbeat? “Renew” and “as in ancient times” would seem, on the surface, to be contradictory.  But not so much if we live in both a renewed future and ancient times simultaneously.

May we each find personal meaning in Tisha B’Av and renewal in the coming days.

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Feeling the darkness and loneliness of being virtually alone is a challenge.  New realities in a busy society make living a connected life tough at times.  Today, I am feeling that deeply.  In a little while I am going in for a colonoscopy; I expect it to be uneventful and yet I wish I had a village around me.

Our lives our full, really full.  And it is so profoundly hard to be present in all the areas that matter in our lives.  Priorities guide our path.  Each of us has families, jobs, friends, partners, interests, and responsibilities. With so much to care for and to do, we can’t be present in every relationship and/or place unless we start narrowing down our circles.  Most of us aren’t going to limit our connections; there is a part of us that love our lives at they are or perhaps there is a part of us that has no clue how to evolve.

Today I feel alone.  In a few minutes I will have a colonoscopy.  I asked one friend to drive me and then another one when the first person couldn’t.  I asked Dovi to help me yesterday when I wanted drinks and to be hugged.  Other then that, only a couple of friends knew that I was going in for this procedure.  I expect it to be nothing serious except that I don’t handle anesthesia well at all.  Often times I am a mess and ultimately hospitalized due to anesthesia, so I am feeling really vulnerable and alone.


I could have asked for any number of people to be with me last night or this morning.  I asked only one dear friend to be with me today; she is gracious and kind.  I will be fine with her.  But as I did the prep for my colonoscopy I needed more last night; I needed someone to run out and get me Sprite so that I could settle my stomach.  I needed someone to touch my head when I became physically anxious due to my reaction to the medication.  I also needed to feel loved.

Thankfully, Dovi was amazing.  He made sure I was warm; he made certain that I had clear liquids to drink; and he turned off the lights when I dozed.  He was also gave me moments of love when he saw me vulnerable.  As loving as Dovi was and is, he is still a 14-year-old teenager.  Amazing and loving, I will keep him that way.


(after the colonoscopy) I am now home from the colonoscopy and I did great!! I woke up lucid, healthy, and balanced.  No side affects from the aesthesia.   I also woke up with an even stronger realization about relationships and the importance of creating healthy connections.

Each of us have a job to create community, support networks, etc for ourselves.  And it is also incumbent for us to ask for what we need.  In a perfect world, our beloved family and friends know what they need to do and do it, but our friends are so busy.  We need to honor that reality.  Expectations don’t make for healthy relationships.

One friend of mine suggested that a bunch of us buy land and build little houses/cabins in close proximity so that we can get old together.  Unfortunate for me, I don’t belong in the south, but I love my friends….so who knows.  I love that I have friends that are thinking about growing old together.


As we get older and have loved ones who are aging, let’s make an effort to care for them in all ways and to remember to ask others to lend a hand to us.  Do you go to synagogue/church with someone who is aging and might like an extra few minutes of your time or a lift to the grocery store or doctors.  Try to help them without being asked.  I know from my own experience today that people don’t like to ask for help.  And yet people need help.

Creating a village means, in part, that we need to be there for others; we need to ask others for help; and we need to sometimes just take care of ourselves.  Each of our villages will thrive once we all realize that it takes a village to make home feel like home.  When we surround ourselves with beautiful connections, we won’t feel alone most of the time.

Think about it. . .what do you need in your village?


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If you want your life to be a magnificent story, then begin by realizing that you are the author and everyday you have the opportunity to write a new page.

~Mark Houlahan

Without a doubt, I have the ability to manage my life; I think you do too.  I always have a choice of how I walk through the journey, even the tough stuff.  I think we all do.

Over the past months, I have shifted the way I walk through the world.  I am getting rid of excess stuff; I am taking better care of me.  I have been exercising, eating better, losing weight, and creating a very powerful vision of what I am hoping to do as part of my role in Tikkun Olam (repairing the world).  I will share more in a blog later this week.

The bottom-line is that moving forward happens better when you consciously and actively do the things that need to be done.  Few people can thrive with clutter, but one of my favorite professors in college blew me away with how productive he was in what I thought of as a cluttered space.  And guess what? He could find ANYTHING in a matter of moments.  Most of us, however, are not so lucky.

Feng Shui is one of the primary teachings that has guided my life; although not actively all the time. 🙂  If you don’t use it, lose it; everything and everyone has it’s place.  I am in the midst of figuring that out what that means.

In order to make room for that which you want in every area of your life, try one or all of these three ideas:

1.   Getting rid of extra baggage

Most of us have some amazing baggage from all the roles we play.  Emails, stuff, paper files, scraps of paper, and mail that needs to be dealt with.  I am on a mission to stop handling emails and paper, etc. more than once.  By the end of the week, it is my hope that all my email boxes are empty and that is how they are at the end of each day.  I am also trying to get rid of what I don’t need.  In truth, I am fairly organized, but I do live with a family and I do have a few shortcomings.  Aren’t we all a work in progress?  😉

2.   Prioritize where your family and friends fit into your life

We only have so much time and it is a challenge to make our schedules work.  So many people are important to us, but if we don’t prioritize our needs, we won’t be able to accomplish the goals we have.  Honoring our relationships in an honest way will help us stay a little more balanced and not feel bad for the limitations that naturally exist.

3.   Make time to do the things that fuel your soul

Nurture yourself by following your rhythms as best you can.  If you need to be outside, go; if you need to be creative, take the time; if you need to read trashy novels, read them.  We all have different things that keep us spiritually grounded.  I chant; I read trashy novels; I write; I dream.  I also love spending time with my guys; I love writing; I love much of my work.  While the house needs to be cleaned, I will be able to manage all that I need to do if I am doing what needs to be done for my soul.

Life is full, really full.  At the same time, we all have the ability to consciously decide how to move through it.  What a gift.

On that note, it is time for me to go try some silent meditation and then to come home and continue decluttering my little haven while making time to hang with Dovi and connect with Aryeh who is away.

 Today is where your book begins; the rest is still unwritten.
~from Natasha Bedingfield’s Unwritten
~written by Natasha Bedingfield, Danielle Brisebois, and Wayne Rodriguez

With light and blessings,


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Reshaping the Box – Rethinking Education

“Think we can imagine our schools better than they are?  It is time to take the best of what we have and to make it better. Remember it is about the people, the students, the teachers, the parents, etc.” spoken by Chris Lehmann, Principal of the Science Leadership Academy in Philadelphia, PA at the webinar for educators called #140edu: The 140 Characters Conference.

People used to think that ‘thinking outside of the box’ was a good thing’; and then one day, I was interviewing for a position and I realized that I didn’t really want to ‘think outside the box’.  I wanted to reshape the box again and again.  And to be honest, reshaping the box is becoming a priority for me and I am hoping that you will join me along with our Education Committee, our teachers, our students.  My hope is that the entire community will help me play and vision for our school and if not the entire community than those who feel compelled to work with us.

Our students need to become complete partners in their educational process; and we need them to bring to the table more of what they know as a means for gaining more knowledge.  Our students are savvy when it comes to all that is electronic and to many other skills from movement, to sports, to art, to drama; our students and their parents have amazing skills to share in our setting.  We just need to find ways to engage those skills in our setting.

The learning at #140 Conf was absolutely amazing and it gave me so much to consider!  Rabbi Hillel was once asked by someone to teach him the entire Torah while standing on one foot. Hillel replied, “What is hateful to you, do not do to your neighbor: that is the whole Torah while the rest is commentary; go and learn it.” The only way to strengthen the learning process is to take another presenter, Adam Bellow’s blessing from this workshop, “My wish for all of us: stay thirsty, stay curious, stay life long learners & continue to change the world.”  Let’s work together to learn the Torah’s Commentary while doing whatever it takes to reach for the advice above.

Each of should be able to take these lessons to everything we do in life; everything is education.

With light and blessings,


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